I checked out of my Maui hotel and was spending time with one of my amazing spiritual teachers in the hours before boarding my red eye flight back home. I had so many questions I wanted to ask Pali. But the problem was that I couldn’t even say them in her presence....

My friend was showing me her home remodel a few weeks ago… building a new master suite with a huge tub and closet. Swoon! (Her daughter was also doing the same thing in her home.) As I stood looking through all of the bare wall frames imagining her new space, I had an...

I was speaking with someone recently about the blocks they have to a full YES on these questions: Are you doing what you're here to do (usually something you love)? Are you being who you’re here to be? Are you living the lifestyle you’re here to live (relationships,...

One of my amazing clients asked this question in the chat in our Brilliant Creatives Community Session last week. “How does self-discipline look like for a wild a$$ person like myself?” First off, we laughed because this came from a highly intelligent, powerful artist...

You know that feeling of saying yes to something when you know deep down it’s a no? Hiding your truth? Hiding yourself? We’ve all been there (maybe even multiple times in the last 24 hours), so let’s not judge ourselves. And, those little codependent white lies add...

When you haven’t fully made a decision, chaos shows up. When you’re 110% in, chaos stops. Being DECISIVE is crucial. It cuts through the madness we make in our own minds. But the problem is that so many people don’t know how to make decisions. I struggled with it for...

If you don’t know how to choose… or that at every moment, you can choose, you’ve lost your power. We lose our power when we abandon ourselves… or when we try to control something or someone that’s not ours to control. This often comes from a true desire to connect. We...

I spontaneously made the dance video below knowing full well what my next step was in a difficult decision.  A decision related to my commitment to growth, expansion, and living in my Truth. It wasn’t easy, but I knew what was true in my body and that my only choice...

Creativity happens through limitation.Healthy boundaries happen through limitation.More money happens through limitation (but not necessarily because you’re spending less). What would happen in your life if you limited… Who you speak toWhat you speak aboutHow much...

I was in a foreign country, and had backed myself into a corner. I couldn’t shake the discomfort I was feeling about a big decision I was on the brink of saying yes to. The decision involved a good chunk of money. But the most challenging part was I felt that I was...

Devotion is one of my favorite words… It connects us to something larger than ourselves. It reminds us that we actually are held, supported, guided. It can help us take our hands off the wheel. 😉 Dancing is devotion to me. Teaching is devotion to me. And my highest,...

I was having a conversation with someone (let’s call her Annie), and the first thing she said to me was, “I have to get over the selfish feeling of wanting more for myself.” Annie was STUCK and struggling with how to have the next breakthrough in her business, so she...

A few months ago, many of my private clients timidly asked, “how am I doing?”  They all wanted a personal assessment, a review of their progress. I thought to myself, wow, this is a consistent pattern right now. These people are putting their hearts, bodies, minds,...

Today I want to share a beautiful meeting that happened in my Permission to be Prosperous workshop last week. (Watch the workshop replay here.) “Becoming available to something greater” is a theme I’ve been working with for 40 years, as a dancer, teacher,...

A friend of mine who lives in the Bitterroot mountains, was telling me about a barn she drives by every day.  It’s a very old barn and it has a lot of history.  Many generations have worked in this barn. The newest owners of the property and barn wanted to preserve...